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Hushman
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 Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 7:54 am Post subject: What's the difference between SA and 'shyness'? |
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| Some people disregard my problem, saying I am shy and this is a normal personality trait... |
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Angel
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| Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 7:05 am Post subject: .... |
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If.....Say when.............shit man, i dont know.
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callmeshady
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| Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 1:57 pm Post subject: maybeee |
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| maybe SA is being extremely uncomfortable in social situation where u feel u must get out of it..or avoid them all together and being shy is being comfortable in social situations but just not talking to much and a little reserved?? maybe?? |
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Lawo
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| Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 1:21 pm Post subject: |
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well, i guess if anxiety is a handicap for you, it is SA;
if it is just an every-day challenge (but not a handicap!), it is rather shyness.
it's always hard to define..... maybe everyone has got a different idea about this question....
in my opinion, shyness may be helpful in some situations, for example to keep yourself away from (or not come to close to) weird people you probably woudn't be comfortable with.
but SA is "a bit too much" and aways harmful and bad.
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ardrum
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 11:48 am Post subject: |
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Not all shy people have SA, but SA will probably all show symptoms of shyness. It's just a matter of degree regarding interference in your life.
I've been shy all my life, but it wasn't a problem for all of my life. |
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Fear
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| Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 6:00 am Post subject: Re: What's the difference between SA and 'shyness'? |
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| Hushman wrote: | | Some people disregard my problem, saying I am shy and this is a normal personality trait... |
that's the exact same thing with me
READ THIS:
Just Shy or Social Anxiety Disorder
Is social anxiety disorder just another name for being really shy?
By Gina Shaw
WebMD FeatureReviewed by Brunilda Nazario, MDMany people are a little bit shy, but those with social anxiety disorder (also called social phobia) can become overwhelmed with anxiety in simple social situations.
Peter (not his real name) was a smart, savvy businessman with a PhD and a bright future. He had quickly climbed the corporate ladder, but when he was offered another promotion -- one that would put him at the top of his division -- he turned it down, jeopardizing his career. Why? The thought of being the center of attention in a major meeting, required in the new position, threw Peter into a blind, desperate panic, complete with physical symptoms like flushing, sweating, and heart palpitations.
Peter had what psychiatrists call circumscribed social anxiety disorder (SAD) -- an intense, irrational, and persistent fear of being scrutinized or negatively evaluated by other people. People with SAD, also known as social phobia, tend to be sensitive to criticism and rejection, have difficulty asserting themselves, and suffer from low self-esteem. Social anxiety disorder can be "circumscribed," like Peter's (he only feared being scrutinized at work), or "generalized" -- a much more debilitating condition that can make everything from walking to a table at a restaurant to attending your best friend's wedding a cause for sheer terror.
In February, two antidepressant drugs, Effexor and Zoloft, were added to a list of about a dozen approved medications for social anxiety disorder, sparking renewed interest in this little-known condition. Is social anxiety disorder just another name for being really shy?
Putting the Brakes on Life
Not at all, say many leading psychiatrists. "Many people are a little bit shy. If you're shy, you might be somewhat uncomfortable in situations such as going to a party where you don't know anyone, but you do it. You give yourself a push, you go to the party, after a while you relax and talk to people," says Rudolf Hoehn-Saric, MD, who heads the Anxiety Disorders Clinic at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. "The social phobic person, at the prospect of the same party, would be overwhelmed by such anxiety that [he or she] would have a physical reaction -- perhaps nausea, sweating, heart racing, dizziness -- and would avoid it if at all possible. It's a matter of degree."
In other words, being shy can complicate your life. Having social phobia can stop it in its tracks. "The hallmark of social anxiety disorder is that it causes impairment in your function," explains Sy Atezaz Saeed, MD, chair of the department of psychiatry and behavioral medicine at the University of Illinois College of Medicine at Peoria and co-director of the University's Anxiety and Mood Disorders Clinic. A high school student -- many adolescents have social anxiety disorder -- might be so overwhelmed by the fear of standing up to give a report that he can't complete assignments and fails classes. For Peter, the businessman, social anxiety disorder endangered his career advancement.
"I've treated patients who are very competent, but have jobs well below their capacity because they're afraid of asking for a promotion or going out and looking for a better job," says Hoehn-Saric. This might explain why some 70% of people with SAD are on the lower end of the socioeconomic scale and nearly 50% fail to complete high school.
Just Shy or Social Anxiety Disorder
Is social anxiety disorder just another name for being really shy?(continued)
More Common Than You Think
How common is social anxiety disorder? Figures vary, but according to the most recent studies, about 8% of the population experiences social phobia in a given year -- making it the third most common psychiatric disorder, trailing only major depression and substance abuse. It's also widely underdiagnosed, says Saeed. "In one study, less than 1% of the patients with SAD were diagnosed and treated."
Part of the problem: SAD often accompanies major depression, in a which-came-first cocktail of mental health conditions, so psychiatrists may diagnose and treat the depression without taking note of the social anxiety disorder.
When it is diagnosed and treated, though, people with social anxiety disorder can look forward to major improvements in their lives. Saeed's patient, Peter, has seen his career take off after treatment for SAD. Hoehn-Saric describes a high school student whose social phobias were so great that he couldn't even enter the cafeteria at school; after struggling at several colleges, with treatment he found a small New England institution that understood his needs and is excelling academically and socially.
Most experts advocate a combined approach, using both approved medications and what's called cognitive behavioral therapy, to treat SAD. "Medication does decrease the general anxiety and also the depression that is frequently present in people who don't function so well socially," says Hoehn-Saric. "It can combat the surge of anxiety when you go into a social situation, and if you can diminish the initial responses -- chin quivering, hands shaking and sweating, face flushing -- if you take away those triggers, the person doesn't get into a vicious cycle of embarrassment."
But that's usually not enough. Cognitive behavioral therapy for social anxiety disorder usually involves "exposure" -- confronting the patient's fears. "First, people imagine the situation, and look at it as an outsider. How realistic are their fears? They're taught to reorganize their thinking, and then they expose themselves to social situations to decrease their anxiety," says Hoehn-Saric.
Group therapy often works particularly well for social anxiety disorder, since people with SAD are usually uncomfortable in groups and being exposed to other people. "They see that other people are like them, and they're doing better now, so there's some hope for them too. And as they start to feel more comfortable in a therapeutic group setting, they can transfer that to other social situations."
It's a long process. Don't expect social anxiety disorder to disappear after eight weeks of treatment, says Saeed -- closer to eight months or a year may be more realistic. "One of the difficulties with SAD is that since people have had it for so long, they've had to start avoiding things," he says. "Even when the symptoms are under control, unless you go out and engage in the activities you've been fearing, you won't know what your response is. So ultimately you have to face your fears."
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Richy
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Many people misunderstand this condition for shyness when it's not. Infact, they think I'm very rude and don't want to talk but it's not like that at all.
They don't understand. |
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Fear
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| Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 11:49 am Post subject: |
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they probably think you are cold or they believe you are superficial.I try to not do things that might them think this,but sometimes I even do even more stupid things.To feel comfortable or whatever I start to give too much confidence.I'm always balanced by the thought:"Am I inventing evrything to the point that I really wanna be ill,or there's really something not healthy in the nature of my behaviour?!"At that point I really feel stupid and complaining coz,I "cry" about something that doesn't exist.Other times when I feel scared,in danger (those typical feelings)I go back to the original thought.Do you relate to it?  |
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