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Beachgirl mucho contributor
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Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 8:45 pm Post subject: |
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| I think it is most important that we focus on ourselves and learn how to counter the thoughts that cause our problems in the TEA forms more than concern ourselves with what type of people we hang with. AS long as we look at things clearly and objectively they don't have to bother us. |
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tmays mucho contributor
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Beachgirl wrote: | | I think it is most important that we focus on ourselves and learn how to counter the thoughts that cause our problems in the TEA forms more than concern ourselves with what type of people we hang with. AS long as we look at things clearly and objectively they don't have to bother us. |
I would have to agree. Well put  |
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squirt mucho contributor
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Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:10 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree with Beach's post above about focusing on ourselves is most important. Certainly surrounding yourself with positive people is a good move, but only when we learn to turn our thinking around by countering our thoughts in TEA forms until they become our new way of thinking all the positive people in the world won't be able to eliminate the anxiety we experience. |
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precious007
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:28 pm Post subject: |
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hi,
I've had social anxiety for 5 years now and Gosh, there has been plenty of ups and downs all the way..
The only thing that I have managed to learn is that panic attacks, fear, worries can all be controlled. No matter if you are in crowded bus, a mall, or isolated on an island. All these emotions can be controlled.
Of course certain medications can help but not on the long run, they're simply a short time relief from all the anxiety and fear. _________________ Top Self Help Anxiety Ebooks
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Beachgirl mucho contributor
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 12:47 am Post subject: |
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| Thanks for all the kudos everyone. The more time we put into helping ourselves the faster and deeper the results we receive. That's why even though I am feeling great I still do the TEA form exercise. |
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wim
Joined: 04 Apr 2010 Posts: 5
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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Hi , I am new on this site . I was wondering what is meant by a tea form ?  |
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trackstar master poster
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 1:02 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Wim,
It's the wonderful thought countering exercise popularized in the CBT book by Sam Obitz. They really are helpful if you take the time to do them. |
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squirt mucho contributor
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Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 12:13 pm Post subject: |
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| precious007 wrote: |
Of course certain medications can help but not on the long run, they're simply a short time relief from all the anxiety and fear. |
Great point! |
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Beachgirl mucho contributor
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Posted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 5:37 pm Post subject: |
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| wim wrote: | Hi , I am new on this site . I was wondering what is meant by a tea form ?  |
Welcome
I see you were already answered. They have helped me a lot  |
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